Local Men and Women

We chatted about what local men see in local women. She loves reading blog and well, shared a few with me.

I prided myself as a good listener, and the topic was interesting too. Hmm. As usual, the local men do not have a high opinion. She was objective in listing and commenting on their views. The usual items like how women looking for material comfort in men. I guess it's the same for other societies as well.

For these men, I would like them to stand back and take a look at themselves. What have they to offer to these women? Or maybe they have started looking in the wrong places? These "bad" women are just a small minority; there are still so many good women around. Probably they think themselves as a higher class, and expect their women to be lower than them?

We also exchanged ideas on the wife concept. Funny. I commented that I would wish my wife to work after marriage. A financially independent woman will show self-confidence and self-respect, which is charming to me (and most men, I hope). If I want an obedient wife, I will go for a maid.

I want a wife who can laugh together with me, comfort each other in sadness and restrain me when I get carried away. I should reciprocate, but in a much gently manner. I guess this is what I truly look for in a partner, or any soul mate.