Sunday, October 18, 2009

What I Want in a Potential Partner, well at least...

After these years, I had defined certain criteria for a potential partner. At this point, I finally knew that it is impossible not to have certain criteria. Those who say "everything is OK" just do not know what this criteria is.

  1. She has to have a mind of her own. I would prefer her to be a bit more decisive, but at the same time sometimes give way to randomness :). For me, I can wake up in the morning, take a random bus and drop off at a random stop, just to see where I can land. I don't expect everyone to be as crazy as I am, but that is about what I mean.
  2. I hope she is not as picky on food. It's just too hard to pick a food spot if she is, or at least she can be a little bit more adventurous on tasting. Well, I have changed too :)
  3. It's interesting, but when you are in love, you will view every of her little habits in a "lovingly" way. When things turn sour, you will pick on every of them (trust me, it happens :). I hope she will not have certain special habits.
  4. I hope she has the same intellect or thinking manner as me. If she does not, I will not want her to try too hard. It works two ways: I may not be on the same level with her too, and I do not wish to be seem trying too hard. It's lame, and tiring, but at least I wish her to speak up and be honest in a "nice" way, which I hope I can reciprocate just as well.
  5. Hopefully she grooms well, but then I can always help. The more important thing is, she should be receptive of this kind of things.
I will pen more if I can think of more :)

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